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I need a good teacher to teach me the ropes...

42, BBW BI female with 42H breast and new to BDSM. I have been in a few sub relationships, but haven't found that one Dom to train me with patience and understanding. I have a full time job add to a full time life and can not just drop everything to be at your side. Planning is the key for a good enjoyable night or day away. Don't get me wrong I do like setting up a meeting somewhere just to please, but don't get upset if I can't get away. Very open and willing to try as long as I'm not left hanging....I'll please you to my best of my ability and training, but don't forget to let me cum since that is the key to being pleased a second or third time....

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Strapon Preferences

Do you enjoy giving or receiving the strapon?Both
How much Strapon can you handle?Everything!

Public Sex preferences

Favorite public sex places:I love to be taken to the adult bookstore or public adult area to be watched as I service my master or try something new that I've learned.
The riskiest place I've had a sexual encounter:So far my favorite but also very risky... I talk a friend into taking me to watch an adult movie in a booth. With the door open not only did I surprise him by sucking him hard but stripped naked and mounted myself on his cock for all to see. He had rope and tied my breast tight and then pulled them apart so they where under my arms and at my back. They turned a deep purple while he gathered the rope in one hand behind my back and abused my swollen sensitive tits with the other. The harder he hit the faster and harder I would ride his cock. I know we had many watching us through the door and glory holes. Knowing I was being watched made my pussy so wet it dripped down my legs. I was told not to cum until told to.... he leaned me back and ask a stranger to slap my tits but nothing else. I knew it was turning him on to see me enjoy getting my breast abused so I moved just right so the next time I came down his cock was deep in my ass. My friend liked that so much he had me turn around and face the other way then allowed other guy to slap my pussy with hands and cock.... when he blew his load in my ass I begged for my release. He had a totally different guy use his hand to fuck me as rough as he could. Within a few minutes I was shooting cum all over. Risky? Yes, I would have hated to have a police raid at that moment as I lay there spent for all to see, but would do it again and always looking forward to another session!!!!

Facesitting Preferences

What kind of facesitting do you like?Reverse
Being bound while red:Would like to try
Describe your favorite facesitting fantasyI would love to have a female sitting on my face while pleasing another and having my pussy being fucked at the same time. Let's do a chain. Lol I can't focus on pleasing others while being pleased so prefer sucking or licking or being fucked and hope it's not expected to be the best at returning the pleasure until you stop.
Do you look at facesitting as a form of punishment?No

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildVoluptuous
Height165 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorAuburn / red
Hair LengthNeck length
Best featureChest
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s), Scarred, Strategically placed tattoo, Visible tattoo
Health ConditionNo special condition
Bra size42 / 95
Cup sizeF+
My AttractivenessAverage

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenThree or more
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationIt gets a bit crazy sometimes
Living ArrangementsWith kid(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityDiscreetly
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates
SpecialtyHospitality / Travel
Employment StatusFull-time
Job TitleCustomer Service

Looking For

I prefer:Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfulness, Passiveness
My perfect matchSomeone that will teach me and be willing to get kinky. I want to try everything once and more if I enjoy it. Male, female or couple are served with a smile. Be adventurous and kinky just tell me your fantasy and I will do my best to please!!
Our first dateA good orgasam or five. Must love to receive oral and other forms of pleasure, and reciprocate when pleased. If you want friendship then I suggest we text for a bit then meet in a neutral but safe place. Tell me what you'd like and spank me for not doing it correctly. Let me please you with my willing body!

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingA mentor / teacher
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Branding, Breast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Chastity devices, Collar & lead / leash, Cupping, Depilation / shaving, Electro torture, Fisting, Food play, Genital torture, Hair pulling, Hot wax, Physical humiliation, Power exchange, Spanking, Verbal humiliation, Voyeurism, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasFor my birthday one year my girlfriend who was not only my best friend, but my partner in crime (my third when I wanted to please buy bringing a girl for the both of us to use) surprised me with a special night. She ask me to come spend the night with he

Fetishes

FetishesExhibitionism, High Heels, Lace / Lingerie, Panty, Pantyhose / Stockings, Piercings, Smoking, ring, Tongue Fetish, Voyeurism, Other

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:A couple times a week
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Threesome M/F/F
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Strip clubs, Fetish clubs, Adult theaters, Swapping parties, Dungeon clubs, Raves, Adult book stores

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isI love it
Sex toys:Anal beads, Ben Wa balls, Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Fruits/veggies, Office supplies, Strap-ons, Vibrating eggs/bullets, Vibrating panties, All of the above and more!
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Feces (NO poop play)

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyI want to try everything at least once. DP, Gangbang, voyeurism, group sex, k9, gay, and forced are a few things on my list.
Fantasy locationAirplane, Train, Moving car, At a park, Dark alley, Bleachers of a stadium, Kitchen, Elevator, Hotel/motel, Swimming pool, Hot tub, Movie theatre, Dressing room, On the beach, Public bathroom, Restaurant
Fantasy sex partner:Someone that is as sexually aroused as I am and willing to play and try everything with me. A kinky positive soul that doesn't judge a person by their outershell, but understands the importance of good person hygiene. Someone not afraid to try it once and give an honest answer when asked about it.

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Dominant / Submissive Spanking
Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Sometimes
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories, I'm always in the mood, Be scolded and told that I've been bad, The Closure / Forgiveness, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement, Be surprised and taken without any warning
I like to wear:Yes, I love stockings, heels and sexy teddies and clothes. Treat me like the whore I am.
Include sex and orgasm:Always
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Over the masters lap, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Tied to doorway, Tied to something outside in a safe area, Legs in splits position, Other
Implement:Hand, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Gloves, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Plastic Bottles, Newspapers, Belt, Wooden Spoon, Other
Response:Compliance or Humble Silence
Pain level:Heavy Marks

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Depends on my mood
I'm seeking:Occasional Meetings
Desired Persona:Changes with my partners
I like to wear:Casual straight wear, High heels and a business suit, Lingerie and stockings, Corsets, Leather, Rubber, PVC, Latex, Other
Ideal session:I want to be given orders to meet at a certain location. Told to kneel as I enter and crawl to my Master or Mistress. Told exactly what I am to do to please them then ordered to service others as needed. I love to suck cock and deep throat it all the way. I want to be watched while I perfect my blow job skills and if done wrong then receive the appropriate discipline. Leaving marks everywhere not seen in a normal setting. (Hide them for your pleasure viewing only) If I don't take the cock all the way give permission to or you grab my hair and make me take it, face fucking me deep and rough. Even if I gag make me take it all and when the cum begins to shoot in my throat drag it over my tongue and wipe the white gold over my swollen lips and finish with cum shooting all over my big heavy tits so I can be given permission to lick the cum from my own breasts.
Ultimate femdom fantasy:I would like to be taken by a female or a couple to be used by themselves and others as meets their fantasies. Fulfilling any desire she or they have for me. I want to be a sex slave to be trained, used and abused, but kept safe in this new lifestyle, while also allowing me to suggest fantasies I would like, try new things and learn all I can. I do like to take charge every once in while and order my slave to pleasure me or allow me to use them. I would like to try a few things that only a female can do. I love to watch and touch others while they fuck....