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Show Me you're different, and I won't treat you like you're typical.....

I've never been a writer, for some reason I find it difficult to express Myself in writing. Part of the problem is My brain is usually thinking at least 3 sentences ahead of My fingers, so I tend to get a little muddled, or ramble.

So, that being said.....

I'm a Mother, a BBW, and am currently working on gaining some real life experience in the lifestyle. I identify Myself as a BDSM Mistress/Domme, simply because the definition is more fluid for Me. I'm a very easy-going type person, too many things have changed in My life suddenly, and sometimes with no reason, for Me to get too hung up on "changes". As long as I retain final say in all things, and hard limits aren't breached, then everything else is negotiable.

I've been told, more then once, that I rule with My heart. I've found that to be very true. There is nothing forced, or fake about My Dominance, it simply....is. I prefer to guide along My path with Love, and praise, rather rule with fear and pain, tho, of course, I reserve the right to inflict pain as I see fit.

I'm an extremely honest person, even if it does not benefit Me, or hurts Me, I'll tell the truth. Most people can't handle that. If you don't want the truth, then don't ask Me

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Appearance

EthnicityLatino / Hispanic
National heritageSpaniard
BuildBBW/BHM
Height168 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBlack
Hair LengthWaist length
Facial HairNone
Best featureEyes
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo special condition
My AttractivenessAverage

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenOne
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationIt gets a bit crazy sometimes
Living ArrangementsWith kid(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

SpecialtyMedical / Health
Employment StatusFull-time
Job TitlePeer Support Specialist

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchOkay, so, finally on to what I'm seeking in a boy...... I want a someone who is able to fascinate Me on an intellectual level, an achiever, successful, and confident. he is not weak, he does not need Me to cope with life, he doesn't bend to everybody - but he gifts himself to Me and submits to My wishes. he is my most treasured, precious possession, and though I will sometimes hurt him, I would never harm him. he MUST be bi, and willing to have a "brother" submissive. If you don't live in Kansas, then you must be willing to relocate. Anything beyond that, well, we can discuss. And with that all being said......if you're still reading, you must be at least a little bit interested, so message Me before you lose your nerve..........

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Master-Mistress / Slave Spanking
Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:I'm always in the mood
Include sex and orgasm:Always
Positions:Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Head or waist between legs, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Bent under the arm, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway
Implement:Cane, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Birch, Gloves, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Newspapers, Belt, Wooden Spoon
Response:Embarrassment / Obedience
Pain level:Light Marks

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Total domination all the time
I'm seeking:Long Term relationships with play
Desired Persona:Supreme Goddess
I like to wear:Casual straight wear