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Couple (67) looking for Couple Akron, Ohio, United States

We are an older couple enjoying a newer relationship. I am the wife, Lynda. We met in the fall of 2013 and were married a year later. I have always been interested in BDSM but had to keep my desires a secret due to a mentally abusive husband. Back then there was no internet; I had a secret stash of magazines, newspapers and books that I read and looked at over and over. Soon I was writing my own stories. My ex thought the whole idea of bondage and whips and paddles was sick and depraved.
After 34 years, and 3 grown kids, I left. I was alone but i was content. I really wasn't looking for a relationship, but when I met Steve I found my soul mate. He often said I was the female version of him. we have been together almost 3 years and have yet to have an argument. we really enjoy each other's company. He is truly my best friend,
We joined the local kink community 7 or 8 months ago and we are having so much fun! We would like to meet a couple, or a dominant male without a partner to play with, but we are also hoping to build some good friendships, the kind where you can enjoy time spent together even if we aren't naked.
We dont want to play head games, we dont do drama. We are open and honest. we just want to have fun!
Looking forward to hearing from local kinksters1

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Swinging Preferences

Seeking:Full Swap Couple, Same Room Only, Single Male
Travel:within 50 miles
Entertain at home:Sometimes
Ultimate fantasy:Husband Steve has had several threesomes in the past before we met, but I have had no swinging experience.
Being submissive, i often fantasize about being dominated by 2 men. Or my husband/dom gives me to another for the evening. Being interrogated by "the secret police" is another one.
A fantasy that we share is having a dominant couple take charge of both of us for an evening.
Steve is also very interested in mutual masturbation, he likes an audience.
We are not into anything extreme. No welts blood or bruises. No body waste play. No degradation or humiliation. I like oral sex, but no forced deep throat or gagging. No anal.
I like light to moderate flogging or cropping my breasts and pussy, maybe a little on the ass. I love clamps on my nipples and pussy, especially with weights added. I like dildo and/or vibrators, and forced or denied orgasms. I also like the suction devices on my nipples and clit. It makes them so sensitive! I do have pierced nipples.
I have never been with a woman, but I am a little curious. I just dont know how far I could go. I think I would be ok with her touching me, and maybe with her giving me oral, but I am not sure about me being "the giver"
Steve said he is also open to a man possibly touching his genitals, but thats about as far as he will go. He wont suck a dick, or allow anal penetration of any sort.
I am sure I am leaving some things out. If theres anything you want to know please just ask!

Public Sex preferences

Favorite public sex places:I've never had sex in a public place, but I love it when my husband has me wear very sexy, revealing clothes, without underwear of any kind. We go to dinner or to a bar and he makes sure I have a few "wardrobe malfunctions" and some folks see my tits with their jewelry, or they get a glimpse of my shaved pussy or bare ass. i guess I'm a bit of an exhibitionist.
The riskiest place I've had a sexual encounter:I have never had a sexual encounter in a public place.

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
BuildA few extra pounds
Height178 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorGrey
Hair LengthShoulder length
Body ArtSecret piercings
Health ConditionNo problems
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedYes
Bra size40 / 90
Cup sizeC
My AttractivenessAverage

Situation

Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityHotel Room
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationProfessional - Technical - Vocational School
SpecialtyManufacturing / Distribution
Employment StatusFull-time

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isNot Applicable
I am seekingSomeone to play with
I live the lifestyleNew to it & want exposure
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyBreast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Electro torture, Genital torture, Hot wax, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner

Fetishes

FetishesExhibitionism, Lace / Lingerie, Piercings, Voyeurism, Other

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:A couple times a week
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkDepends on my mood
Night life:Fetish clubs, Dungeon clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexI've never tried it
Oral Sex isIt's OK, but I prefer penetration
Anal sex isNot my thing
Sex toys:Ben Wa balls, Clitoral stimulator, Dildos/Vibrators, Vibrating eggs/bullets
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":For wife: Anything to do with body wastes. Degradation and humiliation. Face slapping. Spitting. Forced deep throat or cock gagging. Shooting cum onto my face. Most, but not all types of gags. Animal or pet play. Choking and/or breath play.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyFor husband: To have one or more women present and watching while he masturbates. As they get aroused, the women begin to strip and they start playing with themselves. As the scene gets hotter and hotter, the women begin to touch him, ending in either a hand job or a blow job.

For wife: My husband won the prize at the local fetish club last month. Four hours of instruction in the art of domination. It's really a great prize. The instructor is the most sadistic Master in the area. My husband gets to go to the Master's private dungeon, and the Master will demonstrate how to keep a slave in line. He'll get to learn about using spreader bars to keep the legs wide open. He'll learn how binding a slaves arms behind her or above her can cause her tits to thrust out and up. making beautiful targets. He'll also learn to bind her legs in ways that cause her pussy to be displayed wide open and vulnerable. The flyer promised instruction in torturing the breasts, especially the nipples, and the pussy, with special attention to the clit. The winner will learn to use clamps, and weights. He'll learn to use both a flogger and a riding crop on erect nipples and spread open pussy. He'll also learn to use the little suction devices to pump the nipples and clit, making them ultra sensitive, and how to take advantage of that sensitivity.
Reading the flyer I am so jealous. I am wet just from the description of what he would see and learn. Who ever that slave was, she was one lucky bitch.
Oh my! My husband just told me....that slave is me!