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Looking for a sweet, eager little kitty to play with ;-)

Mid 30's, 6'2", fit, well read & well bred lol - I'm a smart, ambitious, sweet, down to earth guy with good manners and fine tastes. Was discreetly in the lifestyle for about two years with an ex who was a true submissive, had a little experience, and introduced me. It was truly one of the best times of my life. Since then, everything else is comparatively ... disappointingly ... rather boring.

Not into acute any pain - more so control/discipline, distress, subjugation, and intense psychological play which when done slow, and juuust right - can be sooo amazing. I want to learn about YOU. What turns you on ... turns you off ... makes you laugh ... makes you cry ... drives you crazy .. makes you scared ... makes you smile ... embarrasses you .. and most importantly - what's too much. Then - ever so carefully ... I want to take it all ... twist and tie it in knots ... and push your boundaries ever so gently, and ever so frighteningly (ever so safely and lovingly too ;-) - until you melt in my hands and mouth lol.

To be honest, the mental dynamic required to make something like this work just right, is so delicate and nuanced that I don't have terribly high hopes of finding the right person to share it with. It takes a lot, and is not for the faint of heart. If you do it right that is haha :-D In any case, I'll never know if I don't try right?

So please - if this type of thing intrigues you and think we'd have good chemistry - tell me you'll be my sweet sexy little kitty and let me show you how much f-ing fun being under my control can be lol. I'm willing to teach if you've never tried it (and we'll go really slow I promise ;-), or I'm willing to learn if you have more experience than me. Like I said, I only have some - but I know what I like, what I want, and am very much looking for someone special and particular. Mind f*cking - for those who truly understand what I'm getting at haha :-P

If you're intrigued and would like to chat about the kind of trouble we can get into lol .. msg me. If you're the one I'm looking for ... MMMMM - then I can't wait to meet you! I've been waiting for you for quite some time lol

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Public Sex preferences

Favorite public sex places:Parks, parking lots, and beaches are fun (other than the sand issue of course :-P) - but not so much anymore. Public job makes it somewhat prohibitive.
The riskiest place I've had a sexual encounter:Bathroom at my girlfriends office while her colleagues were in other stalls lol (they had a very sturdy changing table that folded down from the wall btw ;-) Good times!!

Appearance

EthnicityLatino / Hispanic
BuildFit
Height188 cm
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorBlack
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairShaved
Best featureHands
Body ArtSecret piercings, Strategically placed tattoo
Health ConditionNo problems
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityMy Place
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtySales / Marketing
Employment StatusSelf-employed
Annual income$100,000 - $250,000
Job TitleCo-Founder

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchSmart, honest, eager (either learn or teach), down to earth, sef assured, kind, playful, attentive, adventurous, fun loving and with a high libido to match my own. Oh! - and of course - listens like a good girl ;-)
Our first dateCoffee (so if there's nothing there we won't feel bad for having wasted the time), a few laughs (hopefully), and most importantly - good conversation (if not, I'm done real quick sorry). I know exactly the kind of experience I want to provide and will not settle for simply mediocre, plus the way I like to play can get expensive and to justify the expense (both of means and time) it needs to be worth it.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byBondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isDominant
I am seekingA relationship
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelExpert
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Hair pulling, Power exchange, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Suspension
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasEx and I were into subjugation, denial, & situational torture where all in one weekend - I made her cry from teasing & denial, got her to cum at dinner with her rather conservative family members close by ... and made her cum 25 times in 3 hours.

Fetishes

FetishesExhibitionism, High Heels, Voyeurism

Sexual Activities

Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Threesome M/F/F
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Night clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isI love it

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyWhatever drives my kitty crazy ... then seeing if she can bear just a little bit more ... then just a little bit more ... lol ...
Fantasy sex partner:Shakira, hands down!

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Dominant / Submissive Spanking
Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Use safety words:Always
Include sex and orgasm:Always
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Handcuffed to bed, Other
Implement:Hand
Response:Laughing, Joking, Pleasurable Moans
Pain level:Just Red