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looking for an open-minded lady

...  Preferably as friends and lovers with a look toward a LTR? Not interested in drama. NOT INTERESTED IN AN EXTENDED CYBER RELATIONSHIP! Life is way too short.
Sexually, not much I haven't tried but am willing to try anything at least once, a little BDSM and other kinky things. I am rather creative and writing fictional short stories is a favorite pastime... and am always looking for a new ideas ;)

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CBT Preferences

Orgasm during play:Depends on playmate

Ball Busting preferences

How high is your threshold of pain?High

Public Sex preferences

What's your favorite public sex places?parking lots or parks usually after dark.
Describe the riskiest place you have had a sexual encounter?oral sex, spanking, anal sex over the car fender


Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateYes
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates
SpecialtyArt / Music / Literature
Employment StatusRetired

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byBondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSwitch
I am seekingA relationship
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBreast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Collar & lead / leash, Enemas / douching / klismaphilia, Spanking, Tickling games, Verbal humiliation, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner


FetishesHigh Heels, Lace / Lingerie, Lactation, Panty, Pantyhose / Stockings

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Night clubs, Dungeon clubs, Munches

Sexual Interests

Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isGreat with the right partner
Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Strap-ons, Vibrating eggs/bullets, Vibrating panties
Size matterNo, Not at all
"Off Limits":scat, permanent marks, cutting

Sexual Fantasies

Fantasy locationAt a park, Dark alley, Kitchen, Swimming pool, On the beach, Restaurant