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I'm ready to explore a long held fantasy. I'm former military officer, now a white collar professional, ready to let my hair down and explore. I have an ass fetish and would love to serve a mistress who enjoys have her ass serviced. I'm open minded and willing to explore . Mistress must be discreet and ok seeing an attached man.

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My Affair Preferences

Does your partner know?No
How often does your spouse leave you alone?Not often. Can take time from work during the day

My Strapon Preferences

How much Strapon can you handle?Short and Thin

My Public Sex preferences

What's your favorite public sex places?Car, office stairwell,
Describe the riskiest place you have had a sexual encounter?Received blow job in office cubicle during lunch hour. , I'm tall enough to see over top the cubicle for anyone coming our way. Gave her a good facial.

Appearance

EthnicityBlack
National heritageAmerican
BuildAthletic / toned
Height6' 2" (188 cm)
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBlack
Hair LengthBald
Facial HairGoatee
Best featureLips
Health ConditionNo special condition
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedNo
My attractiveness:Average

Situation

Relationship StatusMarried
Housing SituationAll is calm
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityDiscreetly
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
Employment StatusFull-time

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfullness
My perfect matchA mistress who can be discreet and willing to teach me to be a good sub. Someone who does not live this life style 24/7 but loves to play occasionally and looking for a discreet sub to see on regular long term basis. Perhaps be open to switching roles on occasion.
Our first dateMeet for coffee and talk

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byUnsure / New to this lifestyle, Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingSomeone to play with
I live the lifestyleNew to it & want exposure
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoySpanking
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:A few times a month
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Intimate gatherings in my home, Movies, Munches

Sexual Interests

Sex toys:Anal beads, Ben Wa balls, Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Strap-ons
Size matterNo, Not at all
"Off Limits":Homosexual acts
Ass to mouth
Sucking toes

Spanking Preferences

Role:I prefer both roles
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, I'm always in the mood, Being Told to Assume the Position
I like to wear:no
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees
Implement:Hand