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New to BDSM, looking to explore my submissive side

No previous experience but keen to learn and to embrace my submissive side. Looking for an experienced Mistress to teach and guide me

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What are your cbt preferences?

I prefer:Soft and light, Depends on my partner
Things I enjoy:Squeezing, Pinching, Stretching, Stroking
Orgasm during play:Depends on playmate

My Affair Preferences

Describe your favorite affair fantasyBeing able to fully and totally submit to a Mistress or Domme to use me as they desire
Does your partner know?No
How often does your spouse leave you alone?Only occasionally

My Ball Busting preferences

How Long have you practiced Ball Busting?Never tried
How high is your threshold of pain?Intermediate

My Strapon Preferences

Do you enjoy giving or receiving the strapon?Receiving
How much Strapon can you handle?Long and Thin, Average Sized, Short and Thin, Hard and Fast, Soft and Slow

My Public Sex preferences

What's your favorite public sex places?In a park
Describe the riskiest place you have had a sexual encounter?In a hotel outdoor pool / glass lift

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageScottish
BuildAverage
Height5' 10" (178 cm)
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorSalt and pepper
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairShaved
Best featureEyes
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo special condition
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedNo
My attractiveness:Average

Situation

Relationship StatusMarried
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateYes
AvailabilityDiscreetly
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationHigh school Diploma - GED or equivalent
SpecialtyComputers / Electronic
Employment StatusFull-time
Job TitleTest Analyst

Looking For

Must haveGood Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness
My perfect matchA beautiful, intelligent and strong woman who will teach me how to submit fully to her will
Our first dateGetting to know one another

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingA mistress
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Breast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Chastity devices, CBT (cock & ball torture), Electro torture, Femdom, Power exchange, Spanking, Suspension, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner

Fetishes

FetishesHigh Heels, Lace / Lingerie, Voyeurism, Other

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkI've never tried it
Night life:Regular Bars, Movies, Don't like going out

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, but I want to try it
Oral Sex isIt's how I get aroused
Anal sex isGreat with the right partner
Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Strap-ons, Vibrating eggs/bullets
Size matterNo, Not at all
"Off Limits":None

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyPegging
Fantasy locationAt a park, Dark alley, Elevator, Hotel/motel, Swimming pool, Movie theatre, Restaurant
Fantasy sex partner:An attractive experienced Mistress or Domme that can teach and guide me

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Moderate with hand or implement
Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Sometimes
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Be scolded and told that I've been bad, Being Told to Assume the Position, Be surprised and taken without any warning
I like to wear:No dress up required
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Handcuffed to bed
Implement:Hand, Other
Response:Compliance or Humble Silence
Pain level:Light Marks

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Depends on my mood
I'm seeking:Occasional Meetings
Desired Persona:Many Diverse Personas
I like to wear:Casual straight wear