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Sassy, sporty, sexy

I’m a 49 yr old female , new ( under10 yrs only 2 partners) to BDSM lifestyle looking forward to exploring. I work hard but I love to play hard too

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Public Sex preferences

Describe the riskiest place you have had a sexual encounter?.... a restaurant elevator, and front lawn of neighbors yard


EthnicityCaucasian / White
Height160 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorAuburn / red
Hair LengthShort
Best featureEyes
Body ArtInked all over, Secret piercings, Visible tattoo
Health ConditionNo problems
Bra size38 / 85
Cup sizeC
My AttractivenessAttractive


Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationThere is no noise
Living ArrangementsWith pet(s)
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationProfessional - Technical - Vocational School
SpecialtyArt / Music / Literature
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$50,000 - $100,000
Job TitlePhotographer

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Power, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchSomeone with good sense of humor , not to talkative , likes the ocean, loves sex, likes outdoors , likes to cuddle, likes to play, doesn’t mind honest hard work, someone who likes to travel but most of all someone with a open mind.
Our first dateWine, food, and a splash of spontaneity

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all
I am seekingA master
I live the lifestyleEvery once in a while
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyBondage, Candle wax, Collar & lead / leash, Hair pulling, Kidnapping, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Suspension, Verbal humiliation, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasI haven’t had a lot but all I’ve had I enjoyed.

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Dominant / Submissive Spanking
Role:I prefer being spanked
Turns me on:The Closure / Forgiveness, Being Told to Assume the Position
I like to wear:I like dressing g up sometimes but have never had the ability to do so
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Over the masters lap
Implement:Riding Crop, Gloves, Plastic Bottles, Newspapers, Other
Pain level:Just Red